You can become an attractive winner!

It is all about attention. Everyday there are more and more competent people who continuously create more and better products, contents and services. We simply cannot compete with mere skills and degrees any longer. We need to learn how to attract people’s attention towards us. Michael Goldhaber says:

“In the attention economy, you obtain wealth, that is attention by expressing yourself, putting your real self forward as much as possible. Your property, what is proper to you, is what you can get attention for, and that you must put out in public. The more you gain attention for what you do, the more witnesses you have that what you want to say comes from you, that you have priority, and so by getting attention at the earliest possible moment for what you want to express, you retain attention and ownership of that attention. Any one who copies you is turning their audience over to you, and thereby doing you a favor. Even anyone who tries to malign you or distort what you are saying calls attention to you in the process.”

The Law of the attraction guru’s say that the power to attract is a capability you create for you and inside you. Like attract like! Do you want to attract winning results into your career and life. Here is a list from Thomas J. Leonard in The Portable Coach: 28 Sure Fire Strategies For Business And Personal Success . Thomas gives us 28 great tips how to become more attractive:

1. Become Incredibly Selfish.  Without You, there is nothing and attraction isn’t possible.
2. Unhook Yourself from the Future.  Attraction works in the present, not in the future.
3. Overrespond to Every Event.  By overresponding rather than overreacting, you evolve, which is very attractive.
4. Build a Superreserve in Every Area.  Having enough is not nearly enough for You to be irresistibly attractive.
5. Add Value Just for the Joy of It.  When you add value because you enjoy it, people are naturally attracted to You.
6. Affect Others Profoundly.  The more you touch others, the more attractive you’ll become.
7. Market Your Talents Shamelessly.  If you’re embarrassed about what you do, you won’t be very attractive.
8. Become Irresistibly Attractive to Yourself.  How can you attract others if you don’t feel irresistibly attracted to yourself?
9. Get a Fulfilling Life, not just an Impressive Lifestyle.  A great life is attractive;  a lifestyle is usually seductive.
10. Promise Little, Deliver Everything.  When you consistently deliver more than was expected, new customers are drawn to you.
11. Create a Vacuum that Pulls You Forward.  Being pulled forward is attractive;  pushing yourself forward isn’t.
12. Eliminate Delay.  Time is expensive;  using too much is very unattractive.
13. Get Your Personal Needs Met, Once and for All.  If you have unmet needs, you’ll attract others in the same position.
14. Thrive on the Details.  Subtleties, details, and nuances are more attractive than the obvious.
15. Tolerate Nothing.  When you put up with something, it costs you;  unnecessary costs are unattractive.
16. Show Others How to Please You.  Don’t make them guess.
17. Endorse Your Worst Weakness.  When you can accept and honor the worst part of yourself, you’re more accepting of others.
18. Sensitize Yourself.  The more you feel, the more you’ll notice and respond to the many opportunities in the present.
19. Perfect Your Environment.  The Attraction operating system is a sophisticated system and it requires a first-class environment.
20. Develop More Character than You Need.  Integrity is not enough to become irresistibly attractive.
21. See How Perfect the Present Really Is.  Especially when clearly it is not.
22. Become an Unconditionally Constructive Person.  High levels of respect are very attractive.
23. Orient Yourself Around Your Values.  When you spend your days doing what fulfills you, You are attractive.
24. Simplify Everything.  Abandoning nonessentials leaves more room for Attraction.
25. Master Your Craft.  The easiest way to become successful?  Become the best at what you do.
26. Recognize and Tell the Truth.  The truth is the most attractive thing of all, but it requires skills and awareness.
27. Have a Vision.  When you can see what’s coming, you don’t need to create a future.
28. Be Real, Be Human.  When you are human, You are attractive

Cristina’s additions:

• Learn and win and help others to win too, progress is attractive!
• Care and be interested of other people, listening and caring is attractive!
• Mobilize your energy, enthusiasm and power is attractive!

The Winning Helix says about attraction:

“To survive the jungle of attention demanding attractions the winner needs to focus, to choose the mental magnets that are beneficial and contribute the most to his process.”

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